As young people progress through high school and different stages there can be many ups and downs for us as parents. Every family is unique and we all have our own challenges along the way, everyone has different personalities, strengths and hopes in life.

The time of adolescence can, at times, be difficult to navigate. Parents have such an important role supporting young adults as they develop independence. Sometimes when things are stressful for us it can be hard to have control over the things that are happening and make a plan. Sometimes we might like some help along the way. With nearly 30 years experience working with young adults and their parents I have seen some similar situations and am aware that there is no one size fits all solution. At school we are here to help and staff will do the best we can to support you.

Some other sources of support are:
Free call parenting helpline 0800 568 856

Anglican Family Care, free Home Based Family Support service who can be contacted by phoning 418 2530. They work with parents/caregivers who want to develop and strengthen their parenting skills and confidence so that their children are able to reach their full potential. They visit families in their own homes to:  

-Support child development, safety and well-being
-Develop confidence in parenting skills and child management -Increase parent’s/caregiver's understanding of their children’s needs
-Build on strengths and develop self-confidence
-Link parents/caregivers into community and support network

Tokomairiro Waiora is a  free kaupapa Māori Health service available to support parents.
-The key objective of the service is to ensure existing health professionals and providers are coordinated and that Māori are assisted to better utilise the services that are available.
-Tokomairiro Waiora Inc. services are available to all members of the community.
-They can help provide information and resources and link into other counselling and supports for parents and young people. 

Please do not hesitate to contact me if I can help in any way.
Cath Bloxham Guidance Counsellor 4180517 extension 210 [email protected]